16 Now Sarai, Abram’s wife, had borne him no children. She had a female Egyptian servant whose name was Hagar. 2 And Sarai said to Abram, “Behold now, the Lord has prevented me from bearing children. Go in to my servant; it may be that I shall obtain children1 by her.” And Abram listened to the voice of Sarai. 3 So, after Abram had lived ten years in the land of Canaan, Sarai, Abram’s wife, took Hagar the Egyptian, her servant, and gave her to Abram her husband as a wife. 4 And he went in to Hagar, and she conceived. And when she saw that she had conceived, she looked with contempt on her mistress.2 5 And Sarai said to Abram, “May the wrong done to me be on you! I gave my servant to your embrace, and when she saw that she had conceived, she looked on me with contempt. May the Lord judge between you and me!” 6 But Abram said to Sarai, “Behold, your servant is in your power; do to her as you please.” Then Sarai dealt harshly with her, and she fled from her.
7 The angel of the Lord found her by a spring of water in the wilderness, the spring on the way to Shur. 8 And he said, “Hagar, servant of Sarai, where have you come from and where are you going?” She said, “I am fleeing from my mistress Sarai.” 9 The angel of the Lord said to her, “Return to your mistress and submit to her.” 10 The angel of the Lord also said to her, “I will surely multiply your offspring so that they cannot be numbered for multitude.” 11 And the angel of the Lord said to her,
“ Behold, you are pregnant
and shall bear a son.
You shall call his name Ishmael,3
because the Lord has listened to your affliction.
12 He shall be a wild donkey of a man,
his hand against everyone
and everyone’s hand against him,
and he shall dwell over against all his kinsmen.”
13 So she called the name of the Lord who spoke to her, “You are a God of seeing,”4 for she said, “Truly here I have seen him who looks after me.”5 14 Therefore the well was called Beer-lahai-roi;6 it lies between Kadesh and Bered.
15 And Hagar bore Abram a son, and Abram called the name of his son, whom Hagar bore, Ishmael. 16 Abram was eighty-six years old when Hagar bore Ishmael to Abram.
Section Overview
In Genesis 13–15 Abram is portrayed as a man of faith and obedience, trusting God and following him, even amid doubts and difficulties. Genesis 16 shows that he remains a fallible sinner, able to make significant mistakes that will continue to haunt him (and his descendants after him) for many years. He has been promised an heir that will come from his own body (Gen. 15:4), but ten years have now passed since God brought him to Canaan and made him the original promise (16:4). So when his wife, Sarai, suggests following an ancient custom whereby a husband might take his wife’s maidservant as a subordinate wife in order to have children by her, Abram agrees to the idea. It might seem like a reasonable way to help God fulfill the promise, but the result is an unmitigated disaster. Abram blames Sarai, Sarai is cruel to Hagar, and Hagar responds by running away.
However, the angel of the Lord appears to Hagar in her hour of need, encouraging her to go back to Abram and Sarai and endure the mistreatment in order to receive the blessing that still adheres to the chosen family despite its sin (v. 9). Her child, Ishmael, although not part of the chosen line, will nonetheless be multiplied into a nation and thrive with God’s help (v. 10). His family will continue to be at odds with Abram’s descendants, however, highlighting the limits to its blessing. Worldly prosperity is not the same thing as membership in the kingdom of God.
Section Outline
VII. The Family History of Terah (11:27–25:11) . . .
H. Abram and Hagar (16:1–16)
Response
The great heroes and heroines of the biblical story are profoundly sinful people, capable of going from the heights of faith in one chapter to the depths of unbelief in the next—as are all of us. Abram is saved not by the strength of his faith but by the strength and grace of the God in whom his faith rests. Like Abram, we too face situations in life in which we are tempted to doubt the reality of God’s promises, especially when their fulfillment is delayed. As the proverb says, “Hope deferred makes the heart sick” (Prov. 13:12). In such situations it is easy to persuade ourselves that God needs our help to accomplish his purposes. Yet, as Abram discovers, human wisdom rarely solves a problem and often massively increases it. The family of God can be a deeply dysfunctional place as people hurt and abuse one another while all the time being convinced that they are pursuing the will of God. Abram and Sarai need to learn that, when God calls us to wait, the proper response is . . . to wait. This remains true even when the time of waiting grows long.
It will help us as we wait to ponder the lesson Hagar learns while attempting to flee the messiness of her life with the family of God. She meets the living God, who is looking out for her. Often we forget that God is living and active in our lives. If we do not see him at work, we assume he is not there, and so we take matters into our own hands. Alternatively, we forget that God cares for us. When our hopes and dreams are delayed, we begin to think that God does not see what is happening or have any concern for our well-being. But our God is still El lahai roi, the Living One who sees and provides for us.
The proof of this care comes in the person of Christ. In Christ God entered this broken world and experienced firsthand what it is like to be abused by the very people who claimed to be serving God. He endured great suffering, even to the point of death, at the hands of those who considered themselves to be Abraham and Sarah’s heirs so that he could provide hope for a lost and wandering world. Through Jesus’ death and resurrection those who were once outsiders to the promise, like Hagar, have now been brought near to God. The gospel has a place for the descendants of Ishmael as well as for the descendants of Abram if they come to share Abram’s faith in the Lord. What is more, the gospel reminds us that God is sovereign over all our sufferings, which he will use to bring glory to himself and to grow us up into the image of his Son. This hope will sustain us through the many long and dark stretches of our earthly pilgrimage to our heavenly home.Genesis 16