18 And the Lord appeared to him by the oaks1 of Mamre, as he sat at the door of his tent in the heat of the day. 2 He lifted up his eyes and looked, and behold, three men were standing in front of him. When he saw them, he ran from the tent door to meet them and bowed himself to the earth 3 and said, “O Lord,2 if I have found favor in your sight, do not pass by your servant. 4 Let a little water be brought, and wash your feet, and rest yourselves under the tree, 5 while I bring a morsel of bread, that you may refresh yourselves, and after that you may pass on—since you have come to your servant.” So they said, “Do as you have said.” 6 And Abraham went quickly into the tent to Sarah and said, “Quick! Three seahs3 of fine flour! Knead it, and make cakes.” 7 And Abraham ran to the herd and took a calf, tender and good, and gave it to a young man, who prepared it quickly. 8 Then he took curds and milk and the calf that he had prepared, and set it before them. And he stood by them under the tree while they ate.
9 They said to him, “Where is Sarah your wife?” And he said, “She is in the tent.” 10 The Lord said, “I will surely return to you about this time next year, and Sarah your wife shall have a son.” And Sarah was listening at the tent door behind him. 11 Now Abraham and Sarah were old, advanced in years. The way of women had ceased to be with Sarah. 12 So Sarah laughed to herself, saying, “After I am worn out, and my lord is old, shall I have pleasure?” 13 The Lord said to Abraham, “Why did Sarah laugh and say, ‘Shall I indeed bear a child, now that I am old?’ 14 Is anything too hard4 for the Lord? At the appointed time I will return to you, about this time next year, and Sarah shall have a son.” 15 But Sarah denied it,5 saying, “I did not laugh,” for she was afraid. He said, “No, but you did laugh.”
16 Then the men set out from there, and they looked down toward Sodom. And Abraham went with them to set them on their way. 17 The Lord said, “Shall I hide from Abraham what I am about to do, 18 seeing that Abraham shall surely become a great and mighty nation, and all the nations of the earth shall be blessed in him? 19 For I have chosen6 him, that he may command his children and his household after him to keep the way of the Lord by doing righteousness and justice, so that the Lord may bring to Abraham what he has promised him.” 20 Then the Lord said, “Because the outcry against Sodom and Gomorrah is great and their sin is very grave, 21 I will go down to see whether they have done altogether7 according to the outcry that has come to me. And if not, I will know.”
22 So the men turned from there and went toward Sodom, but Abraham still stood before the Lord. 23 Then Abraham drew near and said, “Will you indeed sweep away the righteous with the wicked? 24 Suppose there are fifty righteous within the city. Will you then sweep away the place and not spare it for the fifty righteous who are in it? 25 Far be it from you to do such a thing, to put the righteous to death with the wicked, so that the righteous fare as the wicked! Far be that from you! Shall not the Judge of all the earth do what is just?” 26 And the Lord said, “If I find at Sodom fifty righteous in the city, I will spare the whole place for their sake.”
27 Abraham answered and said, “Behold, I have undertaken to speak to the Lord, I who am but dust and ashes. 28 Suppose five of the fifty righteous are lacking. Will you destroy the whole city for lack of five?” And he said, “I will not destroy it if I find forty-five there.” 29 Again he spoke to him and said, “Suppose forty are found there.” He answered, “For the sake of forty I will not do it.” 30 Then he said, “Oh let not the Lord be angry, and I will speak. Suppose thirty are found there.” He answered, “I will not do it, if I find thirty there.” 31 He said, “Behold, I have undertaken to speak to the Lord. Suppose twenty are found there.” He answered, “For the sake of twenty I will not destroy it.” 32 Then he said, “Oh let not the Lord be angry, and I will speak again but this once. Suppose ten are found there.” He answered, “For the sake of ten I will not destroy it.” 33 And the Lord went his way, when he had finished speaking to Abraham, and Abraham returned to his place.
Section Overview
Abraham is the only person in the OT to receive the title “friend of God” (2 Chron. 20:7; Isa. 41:8). Even though the Lord spoke to Moses “as a man speaks to his friend” (Ex. 33:11), Moses is never explicitly called “God’s friend,” only “God’s servant” (1 Chron. 6:49). Abraham thus has a unique relationship with the Lord, as illustrated in Genesis 18. The Lord visits Abraham and shares a meal with him (Gen. 18:8), after which he confirms the promise of a son for Abraham and Sarah (v. 10) and reveals to him the coming fate of Sodom (vv. 17–21). A friend is someone to whom another opens his heart, who knows not just what someone is doing but why. Abraham, the friend of God, is the man to whom God opens his heart and with whom he shares his inmost thoughts in a unique way. Abraham intercedes with the Lord for the city of Sodom, that it might be spared if even ten righteous men may be found within it (v. 32). However, Sodom’s subsequent fate shows the comprehensive nature of its wickedness, since no such righteous quorum exists (Genesis 19). The Lord can deliver Lot out of Sodom, but the doom of the city is assured because of its many sins, and even the intercession of someone as righteous and close to God as Abraham is cannot rescue it (cf. Ezek. 14:13–23).
Section Outline
VII. The Family History of Terah (11:27–25:11) . . .
J. The Friend of God (18:1–33)
Response
Most religions depict their god as either transcendent or immanent; he is either an accessible friend to humans or the exalted and distant judge of all the earth. The Bible presents a God who is both.272 He stops to visit Abraham in his tent, seeking to reassure him and his doubting wife that he has not forgotten his promise of a child. In fact, the time for that promise is imminent and will come within the year. Such a specific promise is an even greater test of Abraham and Sarah’s faith than a more generic word, as it sets their hopes on an impossible event that must soon come to pass. No wonder Sarah struggles to believe and then denies her unbelief. When we struggle to believe, we should bring our doubts to God as questions, as Abraham does in Genesis 15:2, rather than laughing in unbelief like Sarah and then pretending we did not laugh. Yet God’s grace is sufficient for our weak faith and our doubts (cf. Mark 9:24; John 20:27), since what counts is the mighty God in whom our faith rests, not the strength of our faith itself.
A modern reader who enters a conversation about God regarding his impending judgments might approach it very differently than Abraham did. In our day many are confident in their own ability to critique the Judge of all the earth rather than adopting Abraham’s deferential and cautious language. In C. S. Lewis’s image, we are eager to arraign God to appear in the dock of our courtroom rather than recognizing that we belong in the dock of his court.273 We might lecture God on the social causes of evil or the injustice of corporate acts of judgment involving whole cities. For many, sin has become merely an alternative lifestyle choice rather than an offense before a holy God.
Instead we should humbly intercede for the broken and sin-polluted cities that surround us and for the many lost souls that they contain. As Abraham did, we should rest our case on God’s righteousness, confident that the Judge of all the earth will do what is right. As Abraham looked out at the cup of wrath about to be poured out on Sodom and Gomorrah, it was as though he prayed, “Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from them; give more time for them to repent; yet not my will but thine be done” (cf. Luke 22:42).
Ultimately, the only way for a just judge to save the ungodly is for him to drink the cup of wrath they have merited. Jesus Christ, Abraham’s greater descendant, did not simply intercede on behalf of his unrighteous people; he himself took the judgment we deserved—even if we once shared Sodom’s defining sins (cf. 1 Cor. 6:9–11). Abraham’s intercession for Sodom was not wasted; even though Sodom itself was destroyed, God remembered Abraham and rescued Lot and his daughters out of the city (Gen. 19:29). How much more may we be certain that the high priestly intercession of Jesus will be effective for us! God remembers the sacrifice of Jesus on the cross, and, as a result, he is rescuing an uncountable host of humanity from the fiery wrath to come. What is more, in Jesus Christ the creator God calls us all his friends (John 15:14–15), friends who have been given insight into the lost and broken world around us so that we too can pray effectively for its salvation.Genesis 18