38 It happened at that time that Judah went down from his brothers and turned aside to a certain Adullamite, whose name was Hirah. 2 There Judah saw the daughter of a certain Canaanite whose name was Shua. He took her and went in to her, 3 and she conceived and bore a son, and he called his name Er. 4 She conceived again and bore a son, and she called his name Onan. 5 Yet again she bore a son, and she called his name Shelah. Judah1 was in Chezib when she bore him.
6 And Judah took a wife for Er his firstborn, and her name was Tamar. 7 But Er, Judah’s firstborn, was wicked in the sight of the Lord, and the Lord put him to death. 8 Then Judah said to Onan, “Go in to your brother’s wife and perform the duty of a brother-in-law to her, and raise up offspring for your brother.” 9 But Onan knew that the offspring would not be his. So whenever he went in to his brother’s wife he would waste the semen on the ground, so as not to give offspring to his brother. 10 And what he did was wicked in the sight of the Lord, and he put him to death also. 11 Then Judah said to Tamar his daughter-in-law, “Remain a widow in your father’s house, till Shelah my son grows up”—for he feared that he would die, like his brothers. So Tamar went and remained in her father’s house.
12 In the course of time the wife of Judah, Shua’s daughter, died. When Judah was comforted, he went up to Timnah to his sheepshearers, he and his friend Hirah the Adullamite. 13 And when Tamar was told, “Your father-in-law is going up to Timnah to shear his sheep,” 14 she took off her widow’s garments and covered herself with a veil, wrapping herself up, and sat at the entrance to Enaim, which is on the road to Timnah. For she saw that Shelah was grown up, and she had not been given to him in marriage. 15 When Judah saw her, he thought she was a prostitute, for she had covered her face. 16 He turned to her at the roadside and said, “Come, let me come in to you,” for he did not know that she was his daughter-in-law. She said, “What will you give me, that you may come in to me?” 17 He answered, “I will send you a young goat from the flock.” And she said, “If you give me a pledge, until you send it—” 18 He said, “What pledge shall I give you?” She replied, “Your signet and your cord and your staff that is in your hand.” So he gave them to her and went in to her, and she conceived by him. 19 Then she arose and went away, and taking off her veil she put on the garments of her widowhood.
20 When Judah sent the young goat by his friend the Adullamite to take back the pledge from the woman’s hand, he did not find her. 21 And he asked the men of the place, “Where is the cult prostitute2 who was at Enaim at the roadside?” And they said, “No cult prostitute has been here.” 22 So he returned to Judah and said, “I have not found her. Also, the men of the place said, ‘No cult prostitute has been here.’” 23 And Judah replied, “Let her keep the things as her own, or we shall be laughed at. You see, I sent this young goat, and you did not find her.”
24 About three months later Judah was told, “Tamar your daughter-in-law has been immoral.3 Moreover, she is pregnant by immorality.”4 And Judah said, “Bring her out, and let her be burned.” 25 As she was being brought out, she sent word to her father-in-law, “By the man to whom these belong, I am pregnant.” And she said, “Please identify whose these are, the signet and the cord and the staff.” 26 Then Judah identified them and said, “She is more righteous than I, since I did not give her to my son Shelah.” And he did not know her again.
27 When the time of her labor came, there were twins in her womb. 28 And when she was in labor, one put out a hand, and the midwife took and tied a scarlet thread on his hand, saying, “This one came out first.” 29 But as he drew back his hand, behold, his brother came out. And she said, “What a breach you have made for yourself!” Therefore his name was called Perez.5 30 Afterward his brother came out with the scarlet thread on his hand, and his name was called Zerah.
Section Overview
God promised Jacob that he would become a “company of nations” (Hb. qahal goyim; 35:11), but at this point the chosen family is coming apart at the seams. Reuben, Simeon, and Levi have all disqualified themselves from leadership in a variety of ways, while Joseph has been sold into Egypt as a slave; no one expects to see him again (37:36). Now Judah, the fourth son in line after Reuben, Simeon, and Levi, abandons his dysfunctional family to go and live among the Canaanites (38:1). He marries a Canaanite wife, and, though he produces three sons, it appears that his line will come to a halt in the next generation due to the wickedness of two of those sons and his unwillingness to risk the life of the youngest (38:7–11). Yet through his daughter-in-law’s bold (and morally dubious) decision to dress up as a prostitute and sleep with Judah, his line is preserved. Not only so, but the line of promise will ultimately descend through the fruit of this sexual encounter, resulting in Tamar’s becoming one of four women of questionable origins or character referenced in the genealogy of Jesus, alongside Ruth, Bathsheba (“the wife of Uriah”), and Mary (Matt. 1:1–17). The one who comes to save his people from their sins is himself descended from a long line of sinners (male and female).526
Genesis 38 is often treated as an intrusive element in the larger storyline of Joseph, but in fact it is a masterpiece of literary artistry far more tightly connected to the surrounding narrative than often recognized. The opening verse explicitly links it to the larger narrative as occurring “at that time” (Gen. 38:1), and the delay in continuing Joseph’s story heightens suspense. Moreover, the story of Judah’s sexual immorality (along with his sons’) enhances our appreciation for Joseph’s religiously motivated chastity under far greater temptation in chapter 39. Most importantly, however, Genesis 38 is absolutely necessary to the wider storyline in providing the explanation for the profound change in Judah’s character, from the man willing to sell his brother for the price of a slave (37:26–27) and sleep with a prostitute (38:15–18) to the man willing to offer himself as a slave in his brother’s place (44:18–34). Without it the wider narrative would be incoherent. The events of chapter 38 cover almost exactly the same time period as Genesis 37–44, and Judah’s experience of sin and grace in this chapter leave a profound impact on his heart, accounting for his dramatically different persona later in the story.
Section Outline
XI. The Family History of Jacob (37:1–50:26) . . .
C. Judah and Tamar (38:1–30)
Response
In many ways Tamar was an innocent victim of the sins of Judah and his family. The trap she laid for Judah was about her getting justice and righting a wrong. Yet at the same time her trap was risky, not to mention highly questionable ethically, morally, and legally. She was intentionally engaging in prostitution to entrap Judah. Their relationship as father-in-law and daughter-in-law raised the issue of incest. As a result the text emphasizes strongly that Judah did not knowingly sleep with his daughter-in-law (Gen. 38:15) and that they did not have further sexual encounters after this incident (v. 26). Tamar set out to right a wrong, but she did so in a profoundly disturbing and wrong way.
This is a common reality. When we suffer at the hands of others, we often respond wrongly. We may lack Judah’s position of authority to enforce oppression or Tamar’s audacity to fight back. Yet we can still wage war against those who have hurt us in our minds, nursing bitterness, harboring resentment, and reveling in their sufferings and failings. Sometimes we turn the hurt inward in a cycle of self-loathing and self-harm. Others respond by retreating from relationships with others or with God, finding safety by seeking to control every aspect of one’s existence. In our brokenness we continue the cycle of sin and counter-sin in ways that make sense within our own stories even though they do not give us the safety and satisfaction we seek. But is there any way to break the cycle of sufferers-turned-sinners and victims-turned-perpetrators?
Judah was transformed by having his own sin exposed to public view, which led to his public confession and repentance. Tamar’s words parallel exactly what Judah and his brothers said to Jacob when they brought him Joseph’s bloodied coat (37:32; 38:25). If there was one thing that Judah gained from all the painful experiences and losses he suffered, it was a greater sympathy for his father. Judah now knew from personal experience what it was like to lose sons. Like Jacob, he too had tried desperately to protect his youngest, even at the cost of hurting others. He too had been duped by a mysterious veiled woman into a different relationship than the one he had expected. As Jacob had not recognized Leah (29:25), so Judah had failed to recognize Tamar. Judah’s confrontation with the true depths of his own sin ultimately fostered reconciliation with his brothers, and especially with his father. Recognizing his own brokenness drove him back to reconnect with his broken family. His eyes were opened to his sin, and his heart was changed within him—a change whose impact resonates later in the story, when he volunteers to take Benjamin’s place as Joseph’s captive in Egypt (44:30–34).
What an incredible picture of the grace of God—the God who exalts the humble and brings down the proud! We are all profoundly broken people, just like Tamar and Judah. Yet that is precisely why Jesus came to this earth, to seek and to save that which is lost. Through Judah and Tamar Jesus was the son of a sinner and a prostitute. Indeed, Jesus spent much of his time on earth with sinners and prostitutes (cf. Matt. 21:31–32), telling them joyfully about the triumph of his grace over all our sin and failure. Jesus accomplished this by inverting what Judah did to Tamar. While Judah blamed Tamar for his sins to maintain his own innocence, planning to put her to death, Jesus himself took all our shame, enduring at the cross the death we deserved. He now covers us with his perfection, saying to us, “You are righteous,” taking away our sins, and making us acceptable to his Father (2 Cor. 5:21). In that way he removes our curse forever and welcomes us safely into the family of God, where we can be loved and blessed by him, broken sinners though we still are.Genesis 38