43 Now the famine was severe in the land. 2 And when they had eaten the grain that they had brought from Egypt, their father said to them, “Go again, buy us a little food.” 3 But Judah said to him, “The man solemnly warned us, saying, ‘You shall not see my face unless your brother is with you.’ 4 If you will send our brother with us, we will go down and buy you food. 5 But if you will not send him, we will not go down, for the man said to us, ‘You shall not see my face, unless your brother is with you.’” 6 Israel said, “Why did you treat me so badly as to tell the man that you had another brother?” 7 They replied, “The man questioned us carefully about ourselves and our kindred, saying, ‘Is your father still alive? Do you have another brother?’ What we told him was in answer to these questions. Could we in any way know that he would say, ‘Bring your brother down’?” 8 And Judah said to Israel his father, “Send the boy with me, and we will arise and go, that we may live and not die, both we and you and also our little ones. 9 I will be a pledge of his safety. From my hand you shall require him. If I do not bring him back to you and set him before you, then let me bear the blame forever. 10 If we had not delayed, we would now have returned twice.”
11 Then their father Israel said to them, “If it must be so, then do this: take some of the choice fruits of the land in your bags, and carry a present down to the man, a little balm and a little honey, gum, myrrh, pistachio nuts, and almonds. 12 Take double the money with you. Carry back with you the money that was returned in the mouth of your sacks. Perhaps it was an oversight. 13 Take also your brother, and arise, go again to the man. 14 May God Almighty1 grant you mercy before the man, and may he send back your other brother and Benjamin. And as for me, if I am bereaved of my children, I am bereaved.”
15 So the men took this present, and they took double the money with them, and Benjamin. They arose and went down to Egypt and stood before Joseph.
16 When Joseph saw Benjamin with them, he said to the steward of his house, “Bring the men into the house, and slaughter an animal and make ready, for the men are to dine with me at noon.” 17 The man did as Joseph told him and brought the men to Joseph’s house. 18 And the men were afraid because they were brought to Joseph’s house, and they said, “It is because of the money, which was replaced in our sacks the first time, that we are brought in, so that he may assault us and fall upon us to make us servants and seize our donkeys.” 19 So they went up to the steward of Joseph’s house and spoke with him at the door of the house, 20 and said, “Oh, my lord, we came down the first time to buy food. 21 And when we came to the lodging place we opened our sacks, and there was each man’s money in the mouth of his sack, our money in full weight. So we have brought it again with us, 22 and we have brought other money down with us to buy food. We do not know who put our money in our sacks.” 23 He replied, “Peace to you, do not be afraid. Your God and the God of your father has put treasure in your sacks for you. I received your money.” Then he brought Simeon out to them. 24 And when the man had brought the men into Joseph’s house and given them water, and they had washed their feet, and when he had given their donkeys fodder, 25 they prepared the present for Joseph’s coming at noon, for they heard that they should eat bread there.
26 When Joseph came home, they brought into the house to him the present that they had with them and bowed down to him to the ground. 27 And he inquired about their welfare and said, “Is your father well, the old man of whom you spoke? Is he still alive?” 28 They said, “Your servant our father is well; he is still alive.” And they bowed their heads and prostrated themselves. 29 And he lifted up his eyes and saw his brother Benjamin, his mother’s son, and said, “Is this your youngest brother, of whom you spoke to me? God be gracious to you, my son!” 30 Then Joseph hurried out, for his compassion grew warm for his brother, and he sought a place to weep. And he entered his chamber and wept there. 31 Then he washed his face and came out. And controlling himself he said, “Serve the food.” 32 They served him by himself, and them by themselves, and the Egyptians who ate with him by themselves, because the Egyptians could not eat with the Hebrews, for that is an abomination to the Egyptians. 33 And they sat before him, the firstborn according to his birthright and the youngest according to his youth. And the men looked at one another in amazement. 34 Portions were taken to them from Joseph’s table, but Benjamin’s portion was five times as much as any of theirs. And they drank and were merry2 with him.
Section Overview
Shalom is an important word in the OT, in the Joseph narrative, and in this chapter. More than simply “peace,” shalom suggests wholeness in relationships with God, creation, and the other humans around us. Joseph had been sent to seek his brothers’ shalom in Genesis 37:14—the same brothers who would not give him a shalom in greeting at home; the answer to Pharaoh’s dreams through Joseph was intended to bring him shalom (41:16); and now, as the narrative of Joseph and his brothers heads toward a resolution, the word shalom occurs no fewer than four times in Genesis 43 (vv. 23, 27 [2x], 28). The Lord is at work behind the scenes and through Joseph to restore the chosen family’s fractured shalom, a necessary step if they are ever to become the united worshiping “assembly of nations” they have been called out of the world to become (cf. 28:3; 35:11). Although Joseph would perhaps be glad to put his father’s house and the experiences suffered there behind him (cf. the naming of Manasseh in 41:51), God has better plans for him, plans for a restoration of their relationship. Moreover, in this unlikely story of reconciled sinners there is a profound anticipation of the goal of creation, in which men and women from all the different warring tribes of earth come together in worship of the living God (cf. Revelation 4–5).
Genesis 43 is the first part of a three-chapter narrative that provides the resolution of the brothers’ broken relationship.618 The length of the narrative indicates the complexity of the task. Joseph cannot simply welcome in his brothers and forgive them without evidence of heart change. It would have been a simple matter for Joseph to recognize them and condemn them, but restoration of relationship is a far more challenging goal.
Section Outline
XI. The Family History of Jacob (37:1–50:26) . . .
H. Restoring Shalom (43:1–34)
Response
Joseph’s costly pursuit of his brother’s consciences provides an insight into the costliness of all shalom-making. It is not only the guilty party who has to pay the price of reconciliation. The person who has been sinned against also has to be willing to bear the cost. There will be many tears on both sides before true shalom can be accomplished. Sometimes it may seem much easier simply to forget the whole endeavor and go back to living unreconciled lives; at other times we will face the temptation to gloss over the sin and rush to reconciliation before real change has taken place. True reconciliation is never accomplished lightly.
The same is true on a still grander scale with the reconciliation that God has provided for us in Christ. Far from clinging to his beloved Son fearfully, as Jacob did with Benjamin, the Father sent him into this broken and pain-filled world to restore our broken shalom. The Father knew what that reconciliation would cost Jesus and what the cost would be to himself. The Father knew that his own chosen people would reject Jesus and scorn him, preferring the darkness in which they lived to the light that he came to bring. He knew that Jesus’ earthly brothers would take him and sell him for silver before torturing him and killing him. What must it have cost a Father’s heart to watch his beloved Son undergo such terrible agony?
Yet that painful journey through a world of suffering and brokenness was necessary in order for Jesus to heal our shattered shalom, reconciling us to God at the cost of his own blood. God himself has paid the full cost of our reconciliation to him. All we have to do is humble ourselves before him and ask him to restore us to his favor. God himself pays the incalculable debt that we owe in order that we may receive the glorious inheritance that Christ has earned.
This shalom with God that is now ours summons us to seek the same shalom with our brothers and sisters in Christ (Eph. 2:16). That process will be painful and costly, as was our own reconciliation. We cannot simply ignore the sins that separate us. That journey may take all the wisdom with which Joseph sought shalom with his brothers, and it will likely bring into our lives tears we would rather have avoided. But in light of the reconciliation we have received how can we refuse to seek peace with our brothers and sisters? The one who has the power to raise Christ from the dead also has the power to restore dead relationships to new life in him and make them a testimony to his grace.
However, not all our relationships will be restored here and now. We might have brothers and sisters in Christ who are still unwilling to speak shalom to us. Yet the shalom God accomplished at the cross enables us to live at peace with that reality as well. We are called to seek peace with others, but we are also called to be at peace when we cannot achieve reconciliation (Rom. 12:18; 2 Cor. 13:11). If God is for us, then all our failures are atoned for; if we are reconciled with God through Christ, then we may have peace in the midst of troubled earthly relationships that remain unresolvable. One day even those breaches will finally be healed, when we are all finally made fully new in Christ.Genesis 43