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Titus 2:1–10

2 2:1But as for you, teach what accords with sound1 doctrine. 2 2:2Older men are to be sober-minded, dignified, self-controlled, sound in faith, in love, and in steadfastness. 3 2:3Older women likewise are to be reverent in behavior, not slanderers or slaves to much wine. They are to teach what is good, 4 2:4and so train the young women to love their husbands and children, 5 2:5to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled. 6 2:6Likewise, urge the younger men to be self-controlled. 7 2:7Show yourself in all respects to be a model of good works, and in your teaching show integrity, dignity, 8 2:8and sound speech that cannot be condemned, so that an opponent may be put to shame, having nothing evil to say about us. 9 2:9Bondservants2 are to be submissive to their own masters in everything; they are to be well-pleasing, not argumentative, 10 2:10not pilfering, but showing all good faith, so that in everything they may adorn the doctrine of God our Savior.

1 Or healthy; also verses 2, 8

2 For the contextual rendering of the Greek word doulos, see ESV Preface

Section Overview

At the end of Titus 1, Paul explained to Titus what false teachers look like: “They profess to know God, but they deny him by their works.” False teachers have a profession of faith but not the reality of faith; their inauthentic faith is demonstrated by the way in which they teach and how they live their lives. They display an external veneer of religious devotion, but their deeds make their disobedience plain. Having warned him of these false teachers, Paul exhorts Titus to be an example of good deeds. In particular, Titus must teach and live what is agreeable to sound doctrine. Titus’s teaching should focus on practical instruction for older men, older women, younger women, younger men, and slaves.

Section Outline
  1. II. Teaching Old and Young (2:1–15)
    1. A. Instruction about Roles and Godliness (2:1–10)
      1. 1. A Word to the Older Men (2:1–2)
      2. 2. A Word to the Older Women (2:3)
      3. 3. A Word to the Younger Women (2:4–5)
      4. 4. A Word to the Younger Men and Titus (2:6–8)
      5. 5. A Word to the Slaves (2:9–10)
Response

The Bible does not direct or give permission to husbands to coerce or manipulate the submission of their wives. If a husband ever finds himself trying to force his wife to follow his leadership, he must realize his error—especially if this is a pattern over the course of an entire marriage. He must ask himself, “Am I doing something to provoke a lack of confidence in my leadership?” The answer may be that his wife is in rebellion against God and his role for her in marriage. If this is the case, the husband can pray for her and tenderly exhort her. But often the reason she is not following is because he is being a poor leader. But no matter the reason for her failure to follow his leadership, a husband is never justified in coercing or manipulating submission. Obviously, he should never physically coerce his wife to do anything, but neither can he be verbally abusive or manipulative in order to get his way. If the husband feels he must verbally or emotionally intimidate his wife into submission, the problem is not with her but with him, and he must repent of his sin.

The Christian wife is not called to submit to every man but to one man—her own husband. In Ephesians 5:22, God calls her to submit to her husband “as to the Lord,” which means that she should view her submission to her husband as a part of her commitment to the Lord Jesus (cf. Eph. 6:1, 5, 7). For the Christian wife, the narrow road that leads to life (Matt. 7:13–14) includes submission to her husband.