2 Samuel 18:19–19:8a
19 18:19Then Ahimaaz the son of Zadok said, “Let me run and carry news to the king that the Lord has delivered him from the hand of his enemies.” 20 18:20And Joab said to him, “You are not to carry news today. You may carry news another day, but today you shall carry no news, because the king’s son is dead.” 21 18:21Then Joab said to the Cushite, “Go, tell the king what you have seen.” The Cushite bowed before Joab, and ran. 22 18:22Then Ahimaaz the son of Zadok said again to Joab, “Come what may, let me also run after the Cushite.” And Joab said, “Why will you run, my son, seeing that you will have no reward for the news?” 23 18:23“Come what may,” he said, “I will run.” So he said to him, “Run.” Then Ahimaaz ran by the way of the plain, and outran the Cushite.
24 18:24Now David was sitting between the two gates, and the watchman went up to the roof of the gate by the wall, and when he lifted up his eyes and looked, he saw a man running alone. 25 18:25The watchman called out and told the king. And the king said, “If he is alone, there is news in his mouth.” And he drew nearer and nearer. 26 18:26The watchman saw another man running. And the watchman called to the gate and said, “See, another man running alone!” The king said, “He also brings news.” 27 18:27The watchman said, “I think the running of the first is like the running of Ahimaaz the son of Zadok.” And the king said, “He is a good man and comes with good news.”
28 18:28Then Ahimaaz cried out to the king, “All is well.” And he bowed before the king with his face to the earth and said, “Blessed be the Lord your God, who has delivered up the men who raised their hand against my lord the king.” 29 18:29And the king said, “Is it well with the young man Absalom?” Ahimaaz answered, “When Joab sent the king’s servant, your servant, I saw a great commotion, but I do not know what it was.” 30 18:30And the king said, “Turn aside and stand here.” So he turned aside and stood still.
31 18:31And behold, the Cushite came, and the Cushite said, “Good news for my lord the king! For the Lord has delivered you this day from the hand of all who rose up against you.” 32 18:32The king said to the Cushite, “Is it well with the young man Absalom?” And the Cushite answered, “May the enemies of my lord the king and all who rise up against you for evil be like that young man.” 33 18:33 1 And the king was deeply moved and went up to the chamber over the gate and wept. And as he went, he said, “O my son Absalom, my son, my son Absalom! Would I had died instead of you, O Absalom, my son, my son!”
19 It was told Joab, “Behold, the king is weeping and mourning for Absalom.” 2 19:2So the victory that day was turned into mourning for all the people, for the people heard that day, “The king is grieving for his son.” 3 19:3And the people stole into the city that day as people steal in who are ashamed when they flee in battle. 4 19:4The king covered his face, and the king cried with a loud voice, “O my son Absalom, O Absalom, my son, my son!” 5 19:5Then Joab came into the house to the king and said, “You have today covered with shame the faces of all your servants, who have this day saved your life and the lives of your sons and your daughters and the lives of your wives and your concubines, 6 19:6because you love those who hate you and hate those who love you. For you have made it clear today that commanders and servants are nothing to you, for today I know that if Absalom were alive and all of us were dead today, then you would be pleased. 7 19:7Now therefore arise, go out and speak kindly to your servants, for I swear by the Lord, if you do not go, not a man will stay with you this night, and this will be worse for you than all the evil that has come upon you from your youth until now.” 8a 19:8aThen the king arose and took his seat in the gate. And the people were all told, “Behold, the king is sitting in the gate.” And all the people came before the king.
1 Ch 19:1 in Hebrew
Section Overview: Joab Rebukes David’s Grief
David’s troops have vanquished the rebel forces, and Absalom himself has been killed, but David still does not know the outcome. Two messengers are dispatched to carry the news to him (2 Sam. 18:19–23), and the tension he experiences as they approach Mahanaim is graphically portrayed (18:24–27). The first messenger tells of the victory that has been won, but David’s concern is focused on Absalom’s welfare, and the messenger chooses not to disclose what he knows about him (18:28–30). When the second messenger arrives and David quizzes him about Absalom, the news he receives plunges him into paroxysms of grief over his son (18:31–33).
After Joab arrives back from the battle, he is informed of the king’s reaction to Absalom’s death and its negative impact on the mood of his supporters (19:1–4). Joab views the developing situation as a crisis and brusquely takes David to task for his ingratitude and the demoralizing effect his conduct has on the troops (19:5–7). Joab’s intervention shocks David into action, and he makes a public appearance, partially complying with the advice he has received (19:8a).
In terms of the chiastic structure of these chapters (cf. Section Overview of 15:1–12), this section broadly corresponds to 16:15–17:23, in which Absalom sought advice from his two counselors, Ahithophel and Hushai. Joab performs a similar role here, although he is not invited to speak and does not employ courtly language in addressing David. His hard-hitting intervention is, however, effective in getting David to redress the imbalance in his conduct, as he has been taken up with his role as a father at the expense of his duties as the Lord’s anointed king over his people.
Section Outline
Response
Various scenes record David’s reaction to the death of someone close to him. For Jonathan and Saul, he composes an elegant elegy (1:17–27). Abner is accorded a briefer tribute, principally designed to clear David’s name (3:33–34). When Bathsheba’s infant son dies, David reflects on his own mortality (12:23). But David composes no lament for Absalom. What could he say about a son who dies in rebellion against God and is lost? David withdraws as he repeats his words of intense grief over Absalom.
David’s exaggerated reaction stems from a false sense of guilt, not from an awareness of his status before God but in an attempt to punish himself, to change the past (18:33), and to wallow in self-pity. It is true that he sees Absalom’s death as the inevitable consequence of his own sin, but he forgets the divine declaration of pardon (12:13). So, whether consciously or not, David plays to the gallery with attention-seeking behavior. That his grief is self-centered and man-centered is shown by the speed with which he casts it off in response to Joab’s rebuke (19:8).
Because David indulges his own feelings, his perspective on other matters is distorted. He cannot see the good news of victory for what it is. He is insensitive to the needs of others. He forgets that as well as being a father he is “the king.” This should limit the extent to which he is consumed by sorrow and regret. God has assigned him the duty of leading his people, and that should be paramount in his thinking. Instead, losing control of his emotions paralyzes him. He undermines his public standing, is out of harmony with his supporters, and loses control over the affairs of the kingdom.
Many envy the famous and the influential while forgetting the constraints imposed on those who live in the public eye. They have no place to hide from scrutiny; their duty may well necessitate that they check natural displays of their emotions (cf. Lev. 10:1–7; Ezek. 24:15–18). Being in a position of power does not always provide joy or fulfillment. Neither Absalom’s ambitious snatching of power nor David’s regaining control through his victory bring either man what he is looking for.