27 Do not boast about tomorrow,
for you do not know what a day may bring.
2 Let another praise you, and not your own mouth;
a stranger, and not your own lips.
3 A stone is heavy, and sand is weighty,
but a fool’s provocation is heavier than both.
4 Wrath is cruel, anger is overwhelming,
but who can stand before jealousy?
5 Better is open rebuke
than hidden love.
6 Faithful are the wounds of a friend;
profuse are the kisses of an enemy.
7 One who is full loathes honey,
but to one who is hungry everything bitter is sweet.
8 Like a bird that strays from its nest
is a man who strays from his home.
9 Oil and perfume make the heart glad,
and the sweetness of a friend comes from his earnest counsel.1
10 Do not forsake your friend and your father’s friend,
and do not go to your brother’s house in the day of your calamity.
Better is a neighbor who is near
than a brother who is far away.
11 Be wise, my son, and make my heart glad,
that I may answer him who reproaches me.
12 The prudent sees danger and hides himself,
but the simple go on and suffer for it.
13 Take a man’s garment when he has put up security for a stranger,
and hold it in pledge when he puts up security for an adulteress.2
14 Whoever blesses his neighbor with a loud voice,
rising early in the morning,
will be counted as cursing.
15 A continual dripping on a rainy day
and a quarrelsome wife are alike;
16 to restrain her is to restrain the wind
or to grasp3 oil in one’s right hand.
17 Iron sharpens iron,
and one man sharpens another.4
18 Whoever tends a fig tree will eat its fruit,
and he who guards his master will be honored.
19 As in water face reflects face,
so the heart of man reflects the man.
20 Sheol and Abaddon are never satisfied,
and never satisfied are the eyes of man.
21 The crucible is for silver, and the furnace is for gold,
and a man is tested by his praise.
22 Crush a fool in a mortar with a pestle
along with crushed grain,
yet his folly will not depart from him.
23 Know well the condition of your flocks,
and give attention to your herds,
24 for riches do not last forever;
and does a crown endure to all generations?
25 When the grass is gone and the new growth appears
and the vegetation of the mountains is gathered,
26 the lambs will provide your clothing,
and the goats the price of a field.
27 There will be enough goats’ milk for your food,
for the food of your household
and maintenance for your girls.
Section Overview
We now depart from the poems and clusters in Proverbs 25–26 to a chapter that gathers a large collection of proverb pairs (27:1–22). It should come as little surprise that the pairs survey the full spectrum of virtues and vices rather than focusing on any one type of wisdom or folly. That said, the chapter returns many times to the dynamics experienced within close social relationships—friends especially, but also family, neighbors, workers, and attendants in the royal courts, offering us examples of both good and bad.
Section Outline
The chapter consists of proverb-pairs in verses 1–22, followed by a long clustered lesson in verses 23–27. This final cluster is similar to the ones found in 23:29–35; 24:30–34. The first section (27:1–22) also seems to have wisdom keywords placed at the beginning, middle, and end. A simple outline of the major movements would be as follows:
V. Solomonic Proverbs Gathered by the Men of Hezekiah (25:1–29:27) . . .
F. Proverb Pairs (27:1–22)
1. The Fool and the Crucible (27:2–3)
2. The Wise (27:11)
3. The Prudent (27:12)
4. The Crucible and the Fool (27:21–22)
G. Proverb Poem (27:23–27)
Response
The Paradoxes of Friendship
Friends appear in this chapter in many forms. Friends may wound, sharpen, or give counsel. They sometimes become annoying. And they can be preferred to family when they are closer at hand (27:6, 9, 10, 14, 17). Most of the teaching on friendship appears in two paradoxes. The first is that a true friend is often the one who seems to do harm in the moment. One might loosely compare this to the commonplace “Friends don’t let friends . . .” A friend is not one who always seeks to please but one who always seeks what is good and true and right. And friends may hurt or chafe one’s pride. Paul, no doubt a friend to those in the church at Philippi, reaches out to his “true companion” to help repair a broken relationship between Euodia and Syntyche (Phil. 4:2–3). Reconciliation like this involves confrontation, injured pride, and insecurity.
In the second paradox a friend in proximity is better than a family member far away (Prov. 27:10)—not unlike the friend “closer than a brother” (18:24). Proximity is relevant in the Philippians passage cited above. These two women in conflict (Euodia and Syntyche) once “labored side by side with me in the gospel” (Phil. 4:3). Paul’s affection with them is based on their shared work. Paul then asks a friend who is nearer than he to help them make peace.
Ephraim Radner reminds us that in the days of the internet “one cannot escape the basic conditions that physical proximity and temporal extension place upon friendship.”186 This is because friendship is not simply a set emotions or shared interests and links but the result of particular knowledge of an individual experienced face to face, as all the natural frictions of eye contact, body language, and tone of voice shape one’s interactions.
This is the same particular knowledge the disciples enjoyed with Jesus by which he calls them “friends” rather than “servants”—“friends” he invites to share his relationship (nearness) with the Father and the Spirit (John 15:15). This is that same Jesus who, after his resurrection, will be with us at all times (Matt. 28:20). He remains constantly near in a bond of love and friendship.
The loss of proximity and healthy friction in so many of our relationships has become an increasing source of loneliness and depression that technology cannot heal. And so we learn through Proverbs, Paul, and Jesus to become sacrificial friends in proximity to one another.
The Greatest Form of Love
Such proverbial friendship is not what most of us imagine when we think of salvation and the gospel. Of course, many other components do come to mind here, such as kingship, lordship, and covenant—all of them appropriate in their own ways. But friendship belongs here too, for friendship and salvation are often scripturally intertwined (Ps. 25:14; Isa. 41:8; Mal. 2:14; James 2:23).
John’s Gospel probably makes this point the most emphatically: “Greater love [agapēn] has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends [philōn]” (John 15:13). The love of self-sacrifice (Gk. agapē) comes to its fulfillment in friendship (Gk. philos). This has a wonderful way of complicating the modern idea that agapē is the highest love. It might even be argued that one love is not greater than the other but that the two are a single part of what it means to love as friends. Such friendships involve a degree of nearness, as we have said, but they also entail the iron-sharpening and sometimes-wounding love of someone who has another’s best interests in mind—nearness love and self-sacrificial love.
This leads us to the final resurrection scene in John’s Gospel, in which Jesus returns to these two expressions of love when he restores Peter to fellowship (John 21:15–17). In keeping with the three times Peter had denied Jesus, Jesus asks Peter three times, “Do you love me?” Each time Peter answers, “Yes, Lord; you know that I love you.” Most of us have heard the idea that Jesus is marking off agapē as this highest form of love, for Jesus uses the word agapē twice in these questions. And yet the third time Jesus asks the question he uses the word phileō—friendship love. This is the question that most unsettles Peter: “Peter was grieved because he said to him the third time, ‘Do you love me?’” (John 21:17).
Oliver O’Donovan points out that our conditioning around agapē makes us prone to miss the careful way Jesus’ three questions actually bring together the two forms of love offered to the disciples in John 15:12–15. Here is how O’Donovan puts the matter:
When the question is subsequently reworded and Jesus asks, “Are you my friend (phileis),” Peter’s offence is understandable: the question has been asked three times, and the words of his own assertion put it [in] question. If philia had stood for something less than agape, Peter’s answer would have been evasive and Jesus’ third question merely accommodating. Peter would have no ground for offence whatsoever.187
But Peter is offended. And this is because Jesus’ words remind him of the friendship Jesus extended to him in the events of John 15. Peter’s failure to love Jesus self-sacrificially has broken their friendship. Jesus is inviting Peter not simply to renew his journey as a disciple but to renew this friendship of love. O’Donovan again explains, “It is to the triumph of Jesus that the category of friendship directs us.” In Jesus we find ourselves loved not only as forgiven sinners but as friends with our Redeemer. That friendship becomes a gift we are called to share with our neighbor.
The Future: Fear or Hope?
This chapter returns to complex dynamics of life within time, in terms of both the certainty of our mortality and the uncertainty of the future, near and far. (Cf. Response section on Proverbs 20 for a complementary perspective.)
To be sure, Proverbs often sounds idealistic about the future. The hopes of the righteous will come to pass; the wicked person’s will not (10:28; 11:7, 23). But Proverbs also acknowledges that this often disappoints, that circumstances intervene, and that hopes are dashed (13:12). We should recognize in all this that Proverbs is teaching us a nuanced and thoughtful approach to the future.
Thus on the one hand the ideal reminds us of our responsibility to labor expectantly for future benefits (27:25–27). Rising each morning and putting one’s hand to the plow is central to one’s identity as a creature (Gen. 3:19; Ps. 104:22–23). The sluggard pushes back against this calling, often in fear (Prov. 24:30–34; 26:13). On the other hand the future is only partially open to us; we can anticipate the results of our work, the stages of life, and the weather tomorrow, but we cannot guarantee any of these things. The teaching in Proverbs reminds us not to boast of what might happen (27:1), for riches, crowns, and privilege may be cut short in a moment (v. 24; cf. James 5:1). The same is true for our jobs, families, homes, health, and relative safety (Job 7:7; James 4:13–17).
We have seen countless times in Proverbs that the uncertainty of the future can lure us into either foolish overconfidence or else paralysis of fear and anxiety. As a pastor I can testify that an enormous amount of time is spent walking people (myself included) between these extremes in search of the peace of mind we need to face life day in and day out.
This is precisely what Jesus does for almost a full chapter of the Sermon on the Mount (Matt. 6:5–34). He begins with the Lord’s Prayer, in which he asks the Father to bring the kingdom. This is a request that looks to the future and petitions God to do that for which we so long but cannot bring about on our own. It is a prayer that releases anxiety and fear. The center of the prayer asks for “daily bread” (Matt. 6:11)—not just food, of course, but the ability to live one day at a time in the present. The prayer for forgiveness (Matt. 6:12) cancels the nagging guilt and shame of the past, while the petition “lead us not” (Matt. 6:13) asks God to walk us into each new day, keeping us from that sin in Proverbs of seeking “treasures on earth,” “riches” and a “crown,” all of which perish (Prov. 27:24). To find peace, the “treasure” on which our hearts must be set is the kingdom to come (Matt. 6:21). And this leads Jesus to his lengthy instructions to help us deal with the daily anxieties that plague us all (Matt. 6:25–34), an expansion of his prayer for “daily bread.” Our struggle and anxiety surrounding time should be endured with prayer (Phil. 4:6–7) and by seeking “the kingdom of God and his righteousness” (Matt. 6:33)—a task so simply phrased and yet mastered by so few of us who walk this earth.188Proverbs 27
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