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Proverbs 6

6     My son, if you have put up security for your neighbor,

    have given your pledge for a stranger,

 2     if you are snared in the words of your mouth,

    caught in the words of your mouth,

 3     then do this, my son, and save yourself,

    for you have come into the hand of your neighbor:

    go, hasten,1 and plead urgently with your neighbor.

 4     Give your eyes no sleep

    and your eyelids no slumber;

 5     save yourself like a gazelle from the hand of the hunter,2

    like a bird from the hand of the fowler.

 6     Go to the ant, O sluggard;

    consider her ways, and be wise.

 7     Without having any chief,

    officer, or ruler,

 8     she prepares her bread in summer

    and gathers her food in harvest.

 9     How long will you lie there, O sluggard?

    When will you arise from your sleep?

10     A little sleep, a little slumber,

    a little folding of the hands to rest,

11     and poverty will come upon you like a robber,

    and want like an armed man.

12     A worthless person, a wicked man,

    goes about with crooked speech,

13     winks with his eyes, signals3 with his feet,

    points with his finger,

14     with perverted heart devises evil,

    continually sowing discord;

15     therefore calamity will come upon him suddenly;

    in a moment he will be broken beyond healing.

16     There are six things that the Lord hates,

    seven that are an abomination to him:

17     haughty eyes, a lying tongue,

    and hands that shed innocent blood,

18     a heart that devises wicked plans,

    feet that make haste to run to evil,

19     a false witness who breathes out lies,

    and one who sows discord among brothers.

20     My son, keep your father’s commandment,

    and forsake not your mother’s teaching.

21     Bind them on your heart always;

    tie them around your neck.

22     When you walk, they4 will lead you;

    when you lie down, they will watch over you;

    and when you awake, they will talk with you.

23     For the commandment is a lamp and the teaching a light,

    and the reproofs of discipline are the way of life,

24     to preserve you from the evil woman,5

    from the smooth tongue of the adulteress.6

25     Do not desire her beauty in your heart,

    and do not let her capture you with her eyelashes;

26     for the price of a prostitute is only a loaf of bread,7

    but a married woman8 hunts down a precious life.

27     Can a man carry fire next to his chest

    and his clothes not be burned?

28     Or can one walk on hot coals

    and his feet not be scorched?

29     So is he who goes in to his neighbor’s wife;

    none who touches her will go unpunished.

30     People do not despise a thief if he steals

    to satisfy his appetite when he is hungry,

31     but if he is caught, he will pay sevenfold;

    he will give all the goods of his house.

32     He who commits adultery lacks sense;

    he who does it destroys himself.

33     He will get wounds and dishonor,

    and his disgrace will not be wiped away.

34     For jealousy makes a man furious,

    and he will not spare when he takes revenge.

35     He will accept no compensation;

    he will refuse though you multiply gifts.

Section Overview

In a departure from the cohesiveness in the previous five chapters, Proverbs 6 contains six proverb-poems. Repeated words and themes within the poems add occasional connections between them. Despite a somewhat loose feeling to this chapter, we are still a long way from the fragmented feeling of the sayings in chapters 10–29. Added to this, there is no mistaking the fact that this chapter fits within the broader metaphorical context of chapters 1–9.

In fact, the chapter appears to be a collection of poems designed to address the most obvious of human virtues and vices. Notably, the father speaks to impulsive speech (6:1–5), sloth (vv. 6–11), the profile of a wicked person (vv. 12–15), and the condemnations of wicked acts and desires (vv. 16–19).

Starting in verse 20, the instructions return to language and themes visited already, especially in chapters 2; 5, namely, wise parental instruction, tempting women, and the consequences of life and death. Apart from chapters 23–28, chapters 6–7 include the densest collection of sayings imagining intense pain and severe repercussions for acts of folly (cf. 7:22–23). The temptations of the forbidden woman here continue throughout most of chapter 7.

Section Outline

  I.K.  Third Interlude: Virtues and Vices (6:1–19)

1.  Careless Promises and Undesired Debts (6:1–5)

2.  Sloth and the Pleasures That Turn to Loss and Wanting (6:6–11)

3.  The Worthless and Wicked Character (6:12–15)

4.  Seven Abominations in the Eyes of Yahweh (6:16–19)

  I.L.  Eighth Instruction (6:20–35)

1.  Refrain 1: A Call Back to Parental Wisdom and Instruction (6:20–23)

2.  Refrain 2: The Dangers of Forbidden Women (6:24–35)

Response

When You Should Compare Yourself to Others

Proverbs presents an enormous variety of character portraits: people who are violent, impatient, angry, and lazy as well as those who are just, kind, industrious, and prudent. In this chapter alone we read a detailed description of the “worthless” and “wicked man” (6:12–15). After this the chapter depicts seven images of abominable behavior (vv. 16–19) and then adds a long depiction of a young man tempted by a foreign woman (vv. 20–35). The text goes to great lengths to capture its audience in a particular pattern of moral reflection and self-evaluation.

The philosopher Mark Johnson helps us appreciate the role these character depictions play in our ethical reasoning and development. He writes, “The ‘self’ . . . develops its identity by inhabiting characters embedded within socially shared roles and by creatively appropriating those roles, even to the point of coauthoring new ones.”68 These are familiar scenes, after all, much like the realism we find in novels, movies, and television. Even in science fiction there is enough of a human and moral nature common to our experience that we are drawn into the characters’ lives and their deliberations about good and evil and right and wrong. In this same way these character portraits in Proverbs train us to “coauthor” our own roles, helping us to grow in our moral maturity and understanding.

Literary scholars comment on the important difference between “showing” and “telling.”69 Telling gives us lists of rules and direct guidance. Showing, meanwhile, manufactures a picture that places the reader in an audience. The one is linear and one-dimensional, though certainly necessary. The other is imaginative, engrossing, and memorable.

This should lead us to ask how much of our moral education today takes the form of telling rather than showing. From my wife’s and my experience raising four children, we have witnessed a much more concerted effort to moralize children through slogans than to train children through carefully crafted stories and character depictions. Classroom walls and school assemblies are loaded with telling: “Be kind,” “Don’t do drugs,” “Listen to others,” “Respect one another,” “Do the right thing.” With these sayings there is almost no context in which to embed ourselves in a familiar world and develop the sort of moral reasoning and fortitude that life demands of us. And in doing moral education this way most of us relegate the power of moral formation to television, film, advertising, and video games. This should send us back to Proverbs (as well as the OT narratives) to rely on their power to shape us into obedient and mature people, both in their showing and in their telling. We return to showing again at the end of chapter 7.

The valiant woman in 31:10–31 may be the most salient example of showing the wise life in action. In the NT we are invited to see the life of Paul both as an example to imitate and as an outworking of the life of Jesus (1 Cor. 11:1; cf. 2 Thess. 2:15).Proverbs 6

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