15 “If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother. 16 But if he does not listen, take one or two others along with you, that every charge may be established by the evidence of two or three witnesses. 17 If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church. And if he refuses to listen even to the church, let him be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector. 18 Truly, I say to you, whatever you bind on earth shall be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth shall be loosed1 in heaven. 19 Again I say to you, if two of you agree on earth about anything they ask, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven. 20 For where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I among them.”
Section Overview
Matthew 18:10–14 instructs disciples concerning what to do when one of them strays. Verses 15–17 instruct them in what to do when a brother strays by sinning “against you.” The section is loosely governed by the opening question, “Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?” (v. 1). The great, Jesus has replied, are humble, “like children” (v. 3). The great also receive children and do nothing to lead them into sin (vv. 4–6). Because the Father loves such children, no one should despise or harm them (v. 10). Nonetheless, visible or ostensible disciples do harm one another and sin against each other. Verses 15–20 inform the church of how to address such sins. The goal is the peace and purity of the church.
Section Outline
VI.P. Fourth Discourse: Community Life in the Kingdom (18:1–35) . . .
4. Proper Treatment of a Brother Who Sins (18:15–20)
The first half of this text reads like a procedure for addressing conflict. If a brother sins against another, the second brother is to follow these steps: go, tell him his fault, and do it alone. The goal is to gain or win the sinner (18:15). Because the results are uncertain—“if he listens”—the one who confronts sin takes pains to obtain a favorable outcome. The logic of the passage assumes that if the brother listens and repents at any stage, the matter is closed. If not, the offended party takes witnesses to establish the charge (v. 16). If the sinner refuses several witnesses, then the offended brother is to “tell it to the church” (v. 17). If the brother still refuses to listen even to the church, he becomes like a Gentile—an outsider.
Jesus is presenting principles that promote reconciliation, not an exhaustive delineation of the process of church discipline. Knowing that the task is difficult, not automatic, Jesus assures his disciples that they do not act alone; the Father is with them as they make righteous judgments (v. 18), and he hears their agonized prayers for reconciliation (v. 19). Indeed, the ascended Christ will be present with them as the church takes these steps (v. 20).
Response
Jesus promises his presence three times in Matthew, each at a critical juncture. The birth narrative declares Jesus to be Immanuel, God with us, to “save his people from their sins” (1:21). After the resurrection he promises, “I am with you always” as the church disciples the nations (28:18–20). Here Jesus is with church leaders as they labor for a community marked by repentance and righteousness.
Although it is noble to win a brother, many hesitate to follow the instruction in 18:15–17. People fear conflict, failure, and retaliation, especially if the sinner is powerful, irascible, or self-righteous. But we can turn the question on its head. Instead of asking how someone will hear a rebuke, we should ask, “How would I receive a rebuke?” Proverbs 9:8–9 instructs, “Reprove a wise man, and he will love you. Give instruction to a wise man, and he will be still wiser.” Everyone is sinful; therefore, all should welcome correction. Moses labels rebuke as an act of love: “You shall not hate your brother in your heart, but you shall reason frankly with your neighbor” (Lev. 19:17).
While Jesus’ teaching appears to present a strict pattern, essential assumptions are embedded in the text. First, the church must take seriously the task of rooting out sin (cf. Matt. 18:6–9). Second, a matter that leads to the later steps is neither trivial nor subjective. It is large and public enough to generate witnesses and to merit the attention of the church.
For too long the Western church has devalued the painful but essential task of confronting sin. The typical adult has low respect for authority and high regard for his (or her) inner compass. The West is dominated by expressive individualism, which says each person is original and possesses unique insights and intuitions. Further, to find fulfillment, each person ought to express his core insights, feelings, and impulses. These have moral weight. People believe they ought to act according to their inner voice. The quest for one’s path becomes normative.291 In a cultural dominated by expressivism, rebuke of sin is not just unwelcome, it is regarded as heavy-handed, intrusive, abusive, even absurd, since it may clash with the project of self-definition and self-actualization. Moreover, given the West’s ecclesiastical splintering, an adult, when under discipline, can easily flee it. As a result, church discipline is thankless, feckless, and fruitless. Nonetheless, Jesus mandates that elders remain responsible to “shepherd the flock of God” by confronting sin (1 Pet. 5:2).